Finding Peace
By Jean Vanier
Toronto: House of Anansi Press, 2003
Reviewed by Jim Joosse
In this book, Vanier charts a path from conflict and fear to a place of peace, identifying a number of stages in this journey towards peace. The first stage of this journey requires identifying the origins of conflict, followed by recognizing the need for change; the difficult and finally the risky business of leaving familiar places to reach into another person’s experience and space for healing and reconciliation.
Vanier identifies the origins of conflict in the differences born of exclusive identities, whether those are cultural, familial or political. Cultural, familial or political identifications are not themselves wrong, and indeed it is in those identifications that we find community and meaning. Nevertheless the exclusivity that is implicit in our separated communities may give rise to misunderstanding, conflict and even violence. The separateness of our communities inevitably creates barriers between ourselves and those who are not included. Vanier calls us to transcend our natural associations and bridge the gaps between disparate communities.
It is notable that Vanier uses a psycho/social vocabulary rather than a theological one, choosing not to use words like “sin” or “good” or “evil”. Perhaps Vanier uses this circumstantial language because of the alienating effect of more absolute and judgmental terms. The attribution of evil is too often used as a sword that ends discussion and prevents reconciliation. Though he eschews religious language, Vanier’s profound Christianity is manifest.
This fine little book is not a philosophical treatise or political theory. Instead it is a very practical manual for peace finding. Finding peace is the daily calling of each and every person; Vanier provides a guidebook that could apply within the intimacies of our relationships, but could also stand as a manifesto towards international peace.
We as Canadians have a reputation for peace. In this time that reputation is on the wane, we may appreciate the timeliness of this simple call and methodology towards peace.
